Thursday, February 9, 2012

A Day in the Life

A Swingers Erotic Story Posted by
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It’s been a beautiful day outside, but what has it mattered? Trapped by mundane work and tyrannical supervisor, the notion of escape into the warmth of a late May day just a mere fantasy. The afternoon had progressed, and as she watches her co-workers file out one-by-one, a frustration mounts inside her.

As she sits are her desk, secure in the knowledge that she is now alone on her floor, she pivots her chair away from her desk and gazes out her window. The shadows are lengthening – the day wasted. Ignoring the stack of work on her desk, she closes her eyes and lets her mind wander. Leaning back, her hand absently strokes her breasts.

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Thursday, January 19, 2012

My first swinger expirence

A Swingers Erotic Story Posted by ar3200 on

I have had many first experiences since entering the lifestyle with my husband. First time going to a swingers club, first time dancing tuples in a semi-public place, but this story is about the first cock I sucked (other than my husbands). I?LOL try not to sound like a story out of Forum magazine. Now, I am a cocksucker. That is to say that I love sucking cock. On this particular night I wore a silver and black dress made of a very sheer fabric with a handkerchief hem that was cut to the top of my right thigh. I like wearing really short skirts and dresses and the club is a place I can wear them without worrying about exposing too much.

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Monday, December 19, 2011

Small Swingers Lessons - Part 10

How to Throw Your First Swingers Party

Ready to host your first swingers party? Follow these helpful hints to ensure the night runs smoothly for you and your guests.

Get Some Experience

You really shouldn’t be hosting a swinger party if you’re just getting started in the swinging world. It’s important that you’ve already had lots of experience and you’ve seen many scenarios.

Deciding Who to Invite

If you feel you’re ready, think about your guest list. Just couples? Will you allow single men to join in? Also consider how many people you would like to attend. Remember to overbook as you will most likely have some no shows.

Create a Theme

You might want to create a theme for your party such as a masquerade or toga party. There’s also a lot of seasonal themes such as Halloween and New Year’s Eve. Once you’ve picked your themes you can enhance the evening with decorations and suitable music.

Sending Invites and Tracking RSVPs

Start by choosing date – Saturday evenings are best. Then begin inviting swingers you have already met in person or online. You can also post parties on adult dating websites. Start advertising your party at least a month in advance and remember to track your RSVPs. Consider asking guests to bring items like finger food, alcohol, condoms and towels.

Providing Food and Beverages

You’ll want to provide some finger food and alcohol. You cannot charge for it without a license so if the budget is tight, ask guests to bring something. Don’t place the focus too much on drinking as you probably don’t want guests getting too drunk.

Draft Some Rules

Every successful swingers party has some guidelines attached to it. Ask guests to avoid getting drunk and think about banning cameras and video equipment. Make sure guests know that safe sex is mandatory and that violence and rudeness will not be tolerated.

Set the Scene

At a minimum, make sure your house is clean. If you have a hot tub or swimming pool, make sure it is clean and in good working order. Place towels nearby. All beds should have clean sheets. You might also consider creating some private areas around your home as well.

Be a Good Host

One of your jobs as host is to make sure your guests are enjoying themselves. Don’t get so wrapped up in your own good time that you forget about your guests.

Learn for Next Time

You’ll learn a lot from your first swingers party. Afterwards, review what worked and what didn’t so you can host an even better party next time.

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Monday, December 5, 2011

Swingers Underground has a new look!

We are pleased to announce that we just launched a new site template!  This is our first step in upgrading Swingers Underground! During the next several months we will be adding some new cool features and launching a mobile optimized version of the site. While these large projects are not fast or easy, they are essential to our long term future.

We are still working on creating workarounds, optimizing code, re-factoring site features, and upgrading hardware and infrastructure. Although you are not seein changes immediately - there is a lot going on in background and we are not just sitting around waiting for someone else to solve all our problems for us. Nor are we doing this all on our own. We hire specialists and most importantly we listen to what our members are saying. So please feel free to send your feedback to us and we will listen!

Saturday, December 3, 2011

Small Swingers Lessons - Part 9

Do's and Dont's of Swinging - Two Couples Swingers in Bed

Although the majority of swinging will end up involving lovemaking and getting frisky with each other’s partners, it isn’t all about just that. Swinging is about building up the atmosphere of warmth and belonging.

Whether you are at a party with another couple or with another person for a threesome, you will be having a great time eating, drinking and chatting. To get into the comfort zone, building camaraderie with someone is essential to get down on the knees later.

Swingers can differentiate between fun and friendship. The love and companionship provided by their existing relationship is bare and transparent. There are no rough edges anywhere and they make sure of that or there may be trouble.

Thus, though swingers may have many sexual relationships, only a single emotional relationship exists. Although close friendships are formed within the community, swingers often feel nothing is more important than their own partner. The friendships and companionship among swingers strengthen the primary stem of the relationship rather than damage it.

How can Swinging help your Relationship?

Swingers lay claim that lovemaking is more intimate because they are with a partner who encourages their fantasies. The partner is so confident that jealousy is not an issue. Swingers also vouch that swinging makes infidelity less likely, as they know they can have physical contact with others with their partner’s consent.

Various responses exist to those who object to swinging on the basis of faith. Many swingers feel their activities in their own homes or private clubs are not for others’ justification. Others believe that as long as they consider their relationships sacred, playing does not contradict the sanctity and is consistent with spiritual values. Two additional considerations should be made when it comes to swinging. The first is that the couple defines cheating. As long as the couple have a definition and stay within their boundaries, no cheating would occur. Secondly, some argue that adultery is incongruent with the original definition.

Another common response to moral and philosophical objections is that there is a difference between physical intimacy and love. Contradictorily, this is one of the objections that religious groups have, that this distinction should not exist, meaning both physical intimacy and love should be the same physical agenda.

The Do’s and Don’ts of Swinging

Be truthful and honest when you talk to your partner about your feelings. If you feel jealous of your partner, or have any other uncomfortable feelings about the whole sexual step, tell your partner. If you don’t, they will only come out later and be much more awkward and damaging.

Once you get to the swingers’ joint, be yourself and don’t pretend to be someone else. Being friendly, good-natured and exuding a warm aura has a positive effect on everyone. Leaving your inhibitions at home, both physical and social is a must as it can interfere with your swinging pleasure.

You can’t expect to get much out of a swingers’ party if you aren’t prepared to put much in. Stay close to your partner but not in a clingy way as it may ward off others from approaching either of you. Know your needs, interests and desires and let everyone know about them. Practice safe sex and don’t go beyond limits, even if you intend to try new things.

Are you ready to swap partners?

Don’t be Pushy

Invite someone you’re interested in, in a clean manner and leave the decision-making to them. Don’t ask them for reasons or explanations, even if it’s your partner. Don’t carry on your sweet talking to convince someone if they’ve declined. You’d only drive a nail through your relationship. Don’t overindulge in alcohol. Don’t take someone who isn’t interested and not informed, about the actual course of the night.

Don’t take a Ticket

Don’t take a ‘ticket’ to a swingers’ party (a ticket is the one who goes just to get you in and not to take part). Don’t disturb the swinging pleasures of others. Don’t be rude and try to cheat or lie. Don’t give personal details to anyone at the party if you aren’t comfortable. Don’t be vague about your desires. Don’t cross other people’s limits.

Are you sure about this?

Swinging isn’t for everyone. People need to discuss between themselves, the different factors including jealousy, self-esteem, or any relationship problems, prior to entering into the swinging lifestyle. If any of these areas are of major concern to either person, then chances are, you aren’t ready to enjoy the swinging lifestyle and all of its benefits.

Why are you swinging, really?

It is to be noted that swinging is to enhance your relationship, not to repair or rebuild it. A couple receptive to new and different sexual experiences will begin to explore different avenues of shared sexual fulfillment to continue to grow together. Couples who want to find a way to reconnect physically and emotionally are more likely to make it through a swingers’ party together.

It provides sexual variety, adventure, and the opportunity to live out fantasies as a couple without secrecy and deceit. But never ever join a swinging community and use that as an excuse to cheat on your partner.

Swinging, if done respectfully, can enhance your relationship by a mile. But then again, it is wicked ideas like these that make sentences like the next one appear. Do it if you want, stay away if you want, because indulgences like these really are to each their own!

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Friday, December 2, 2011

N'awlins, Is Getting a Little Naughter! one of the nations largest swingers web sites is relocating its offices to New Orleans starting Janurary 1st 2012 is on of the nations fastest growing swingers or "Lifestyle" web sites. When asked if swinging died in the 70's, Todd Crawford the owner of LoveVoodoo said."Not only did it not die, but it is everywhere! The ability to find people on the Internet has blown up the Lifestyle movement. We have over 100,000 active users in the United States alone. Our members' average age is under 35. They are typically well off, concerned about their appearance, and looking to try something new". Todd also explained that while there are plenty of blue color people involved in the Lifestyle, the top three occupations of his members, in order are 1. Teachers, 2. Doctors 3. Law Enforcement. He preferes the use of the term "The Lifestyle" as opposed to Swingers. When people hear the term "Swingers" they think about wife swapping, where "The Lifestyle" is more encompasing and includes people that are into different fetishes or that just want to be in a sexy enviroment but only be intamate with their partner. As it turns out there are hundreds of "Swingers Clubs" legally operating in the United States. Almost every state has one including Louisiana. There are "On Premise" clubs which means, members engage in sexual activities on the property. These are typically private clubs, where members pay an annual membership fee. There are also "Off Premise" clubs which means, sexual activity is not permitted on the property. This is in addition to all of the private parties that swingers have themselves. is self described as a "dating site on steroids". Members can create profiles, post photos and email other members. There are also areas for, blogs, and chats. Todd wife and business partner Elena Crawford explained that not only is LoveVooDoo a great place to meet other couples involved in swinging, but it is an excellent resource for anyone interested in the Lifestyle. There is an area where swingers clubs and other members can post parties and other events. There is a section on Swinging 101, and a help section for questions people interested in the Lifestyle may have. LoveVooDoo also has a "Club Locator" that lists every swingers club in North America. All you do is enter a zip code and it returns all the clubs in the surrounding area.

In addtion to their swingers dating site, Todd & Elena also own LoveVoodoo travel specializes in adult resorts, and cruises. We asked Todd why they decided to move their entire operation to New Orleans. He explained " Elena and I have loved New Orleans for years. We actually came to New Orleans on our second date! Personally we are big Jazz fans, and there is obviously no place better on earth for Jazz than New Orleans. Business wise we like that fact that people from all over the world visit The Big Easy! By making contact with these people here, we hope the will spread the word about LoveVoodoo & LoveVoodoo Travel when they return to their home towns. We have also found that people in New Orleans have a "Live and let Live" attutude towards life. We feel that,regaurdless if New Orlineans agree with us personally,as long as we are not hurting anyone, we are a productive members of the community, and of course pay our taxes!, that we will be welcome when we arrive".

I don't know about you, but all this information is going to make me look twice at people at my next PTA meeting! I agree with Todd, Live and Let Live! Welcome to the Big Easy!


Contact or interview opportunities:
Todd Crawford
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Office: (202) 360-4056
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